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I remember you mentioned your family was newish to homeschool in a chat you had with Dr. Hooten Wilson (about the book Deschooling Society). So this was interesting to read! And I have gathered some of the same observations, not so much from a convention but just in general observing in person and online.

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Thanks Myles. We have homeschooled our kids (now in a university model private school two days a week with three days at home) and this echoes much of what we have experienced as well. The fringes are real, but there is also a beautiful and deep community to be found.

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As a homeschooled child, and a homeschooling mom until 3rd grade, I appreciate the nuance. I was one of the weirder ones, lol, but I made it into adulthood fairly competently.

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We started homeschooling because of lockdowns as well. It is a strange world but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

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Do you think there are assumptions underneath “other booths have undercurrents of liberty, self government, and personal choice, an ethos which puts it squarely at odds with another value of homeschooling: the value of community.” Why is liberty, self-gov, and personal choice at odds with community? I don’t think I see these as at odds

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Mostly because, from a Christian vantage point, independence has to give way to enter dependence. I was in a homesteading seminar today that really valorized independence at the expense of caring for systems, which reminded me of this dynamic. Independence as a prime value only leads to more fragmentation, not communities. It can produce only coalitions, and which our interests align, side-by-side and not connected.

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Thanks for the response. I think you’re right in some instances. I can see complete self-sufficiency, at least in one’s heart, to be a danger to community. Also, I’m thinking of 1 Thessalonians 4, and while I don’t want to eisegete American valorized and atomistic capitalism into the passage, I can’t help but think an important part of Christian ethics is one’s ability to provide and care for others.

Final thought is the political dimension. I don’t think choice (by which I mean am absence of gov coercion) is in conflict with radical giving and the interdependence of freely chosen community centered around a moral (or spiritual) vision.

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In my experience, churches have largely changed from places of mutual support and interdependence, into ideological huddles against the evils of “the world” and are unwelcoming to anyone who doesn’t share the groupthink.

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